It has been a while since an update. It is sometimes tough to think of pregnancy and the future after a loss. Mostly you try and not look past that day. Stay in the now to keep the worries away.
So far things are good. I am actually happy so far with this pregnancy. I am 17 weeks now.
It seems though that this part of the journey is very hard on the non pregnant person of the relationship. They want to have some control over the situation, but they can. All they can do let go and hope for the best. Until they can feel the baby it is all still far away. My husband worries about what I eat or not excersing enough, but no matter how frustrated I get with him I have to remember he has no control of this situation and this is his only way of showing his worry.
Enjoy every minute of your pregnancy no matter how loved or miserable or frustraing or anything because it is just a short journey before you get to hold your baby.
So far things are good. I am actually happy so far with this pregnancy. I am 17 weeks now.
It seems though that this part of the journey is very hard on the non pregnant person of the relationship. They want to have some control over the situation, but they can. All they can do let go and hope for the best. Until they can feel the baby it is all still far away. My husband worries about what I eat or not excersing enough, but no matter how frustrated I get with him I have to remember he has no control of this situation and this is his only way of showing his worry.
Enjoy every minute of your pregnancy no matter how loved or miserable or frustraing or anything because it is just a short journey before you get to hold your baby.